{"id":659419,"date":"2014-04-22T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2014-04-22T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stg-hemmetsjournal-stage.kinsta.cloud\/hemmetsjournal\/artiklar\/experterna\/20140421\/finns-det-nagon-som-kan-hjalpa-mig\/"},"modified":"2016-05-15T15:42:57","modified_gmt":"2016-05-15T15:42:57","slug":"finns-det-nagon-som-kan-hjalpa-mig","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stage.hemtrevligt.se\/hemmetsjournal\/artiklar\/experterna\/20140422\/finns-det-nagon-som-kan-hjalpa-mig\/","title":{"rendered":"Finns det n\u00e5gon som kan hj\u00e4lpa mig?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>\n<div>\n<p>Jag hoppas att du kan hj\u00e4lpa mig f\u00f6r jag har v\u00e4rldens st\u00f6rsta problem. Det \u00e4r s\u00e5 att jag har f\u00f6rlorat min oskuld och det \u00e4r ingen som vet det. Jag ska gifta mig i om n\u00e5gra m\u00e5nader och tjejer ska ha kvar sin oskuld n\u00e4r de gifter sig i mitt hemland. Killen jag ska gifta mig med tror att jag fortfarande har min oskuld kvar.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Sn\u00e4lla hj\u00e4lp mig, det handlar om liv och d\u00f6d! Vart ska jag v\u00e4nda mig? Jag bor i Sk\u00e5ne i en liten by. Jag har kontaktat ungdomsmottagningen men de s\u00e4ger att de inte vet n\u00e5got om detta och de kan inte hj\u00e4lpa mig.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div><strong>Gynekolog Kristina Billberg svarar:<\/strong><\/p>\n<div>\n<p>Det \u00e4r helt om\u00f6jligt f\u00f6r en man att avg\u00f6ra om en kvinna \u00e4r oskuld eller inte. M\u00f6domshinnan eller slidkransen som den ocks\u00e5 kallas kan se v\u00e4ldigt olika ut. Den kan vara h\u00f6g och stram och d\u00e4rf\u00f6r orsaka problem i samband med f\u00f6rsta g\u00e5ngen man har samlag men detta h\u00f6r mer till ovanligheterna.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>De flesta har bara en liten krans av veckig slemhinna i bakre delen av slidmynningen och det g\u00e5r absolut inte att se om penetrerande samlag genomf\u00f6rts eller inte.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Inom den offentliga v\u00e5rden i Sverige g\u00f6r man inte n\u00e5gra operationer d\u00e4r man delvis syr igen slidmynningen inf\u00f6r gifterm\u00e5l. Jag kan inte uttala mig om n\u00e5got s\u00e5dant f\u00f6rekommer privat.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Jag blir lite \u00f6verraskad \u00f6ver det du ber\u00e4ttar om ungdomsmottagningen. Man brukar d\u00e4r ha god kunskap om hur man hanterar ett problem av detta slag. Du kan f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka prata med n\u00e5gon annan barnmorska p\u00e5 mottagningen eller med kuratorn.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Om du upplever att det verkligen \u00e4r en fr\u00e5ga p\u00e5 liv eller d\u00f6d \u00e4r det v\u00e4ldigt viktigt att du h\u00f6r av dig till n\u00e5gon innan du bara \u00e5ker iv\u00e4g. Den h\u00e4r typen av v\u00e5ld och hot mot kvinnor \u00e4r ju ur ett svenskt perspektiv helt otill\u00e5ten.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Andra st\u00e4llen man kan v\u00e4nda sig till \u00e4r sociala myndigheter eller polisen.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jag hoppas att du kan hj\u00e4lpa mig f\u00f6r jag har v\u00e4rldens st\u00f6rsta problem. 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